We were officially one minute over the meeting’s scheduled end time, and one of my colleagues spoke for the first time all meeting, exclaiming, “if it ain’t broke, why fix it?!” It’s as if she had been holding onto this one liner for the entire meeting just waiting for the right moment to impart this wisdom.
Let’s be honest with ourselves for a moment!
We’re much better at talking about doing the things we ought to do than actually doing said things. Generally speaking, today’s leaders are well principled, but poorly practiced.
Inspirational quotes and memorable one-liners are more accessible than ever before. Bookshelves are overflowing with books outlining a better way to do something or think about something. In fact, I'd venture to say you’ve likely read most of the relevant ones. Yet, we still struggle miserably to do what we ought to do.
On the most recent episode of the Stay The Course Leadership podcast we discussed the concept of drift.
Leaders of all ages know what drift feels like. It’s something we all struggle with combatting. It is the subtle movement or “slide” we experience when we get too wrapped up in external forces.
Our ambitions drift, our motivations drift, our level of courage drifts. We lose purpose and discipline due to drift. Our lifestyle rhythms drift. This isn’t a new phenomenon, though there are new vices and an increased access to forces that cause us to drift.
The reality is, drift is and always has been primarily a heart issue. Drift starts in the heart.
When we’re in step with God, we can be led in directions that simply don’t make sense to us. We can be put into positions that don’t quite add up. Study any successful leader and you will find periods of wandering in their journey. Seasons in the wilderness.
About two years ago, I wrote an article about how the theory of periodization can transform the work of leaders.
In short, periodization is a philosophy used for physical training in exercise physiology. It is in the backbone of research for how muscles grow and how we develop physical strength over time. The process of periodization goes like this:
Isolate the muscle you want to grow
Stress the muscle - (put it under weight)
Rest and recover
Repeat - (adding a little more weight each time)
As you read this email every week, you are a part of a community of leaders in a variety of industries who fully understand STRESS.
We talked on our latest podcast episode about leadership being a skill that can be developed. So much of the language around leadership is flawed.
“They’re such a natural leader.”
“She’s a born leader.”
“He’s just leads so effortlessly.”
All of those comments can be so well intentioned but they fall so short of reality. Sure, there may be environments where a leader can rely on their natural or born instincts. It may be effortless in some cases. But, we know there will always come a time when our default abilities will be maxed out and we will have to level-up our skills.
At some point we all must get serious about what it is we want in life. We’re not talking in terms of status, compensation, benefits, corner office, reserved parking spaces. If you’ve been a part of the STC Newsletter for any time at all you’ve picked up on our view of those types of wants. They’re transactional, and they’re not what we’re about. They have their place. But we know they don’t really satisfy the deeper thirst inside of us.
“What do you want?”
There is no excuse. Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets. You are who you are, by design. You’ve done what you’ve done, by design.
It’s easy to paint yourself in a corner regarding your abilities, circumstances, or nature. We say things like:
“This is just how I am.”
“This is just how it is.”
We want so badly for that to actually be true, but deep down we know better.
A few weeks ago, we talked about how essential it is for you to dream. When was the last time you dreamt? For some, that may have been a great nudge to start dreaming and exploring all that is possible in God.
For others, that prompt may have been a stinging reminder that the dreams you’ve been dreaming are unfulfilled. We recognize, some don’t need help dreaming. Maybe you’ve been dreaming for years. The truth is, some don’t have a hard time coming up with dreams, they have a hard time reconciling why a dream from years ago is still incomplete.
You’re always going to have a choice. That choice may not always be apparent. That choice may not always be easy. That choice may not always be wanted, but it will always be yours to make.
We don’t even know you, but we know you have options. In fact, you likely have much more options than you think you do.